DEAR ABBY: i will be involved to your passion for my entire life (“Tom”), and I also dread making the visitor list for the wedding. We don’t desire any one of my cousins here. The ones that are young rude and obnoxious, plus the one who’s a grownup we no more keep in touch with. We asked my mother how to proceed. She stated whenever we ask any kids, then we should invite them all.
We wish my fiance’s young nieces and nephews to stay the marriage celebration. Tom stated he is not welcoming anybody he doesn’t want there. a few family relations invited me with their weddings because my moms and dads had been invited, but I do not feel I’m sure them good enough to ask them to mine, although one couple was type enough to obtain us an engagement present. I do want to be good, but I do not desire any nonsense. Please assistance. — TORN INTO THE EAST
DEAR TORN: Your mom gets the right concept. Tune in to her. Weddings may bring families together, nonetheless they also can do the alternative. The loved ones you will be thinking about excluding would be the kids of the moms and dads’ siblings. Them well, be gracious if you don’t know. Should you snub them while together with your fiance’s nieces and nephews, term can get returning to them — believe me on that — additionally the negative repercussions could continue for years and impact not merely you but in addition your mother and father. Continue reading “Dear Abby: Wedding guest list is filled with concerns”